“Vanilla” hasn’t for ages been a put-down
“Those of us who possess various . notions of eroticism and sensuality are simply just dismissed. The pejorative word word that is pejorativebeing ‘vanilla,’ which will be ironically, probably one of the most sensual aromas.” – Andrea Dworkin.
“I wish BDSM people would stop talking about me as ‘vanilla.’ A derogatory name that implies they’re all prudish bores?” – Anonymous, commenter on Bitch if you’re making the case that everyone should be free to do what they like without being judged, why call non-BDSM people.
We also be concerned about the kinkification of culture if we bemoan the oversexualization of culture, should?
As BDSM writer Clarisse Thorn writes, “Being a feminist that is sex-positive I stress that other females will read could work and it’ll increase their performance anxiety . Sigue leyendo